Sunday, March 27, 2011

What it's really like here....

I know I've posted pics on FB, but I wanted to describe what life is really like....
There's always something to do. Last weekend we went for a bike ride along the coast with some friends. On the left-hand side is the ocean. As we went along, we came upon an Ironman triathlon. Kinda makes me want to train for another marathon.... There are sooo many races here- just about every weekend.
Downtown at night. Playing with color.
As we walked along the harbor, we stumbled upon a free outdoor concert. It seems like there's some sort of concert or something going on. On Sunday nights about twice a month the symphony plays in the Botanic Gardens which is about a 5 minute walk away. Families bring their kids and dogs and picnic on the grass. This is one of my favorite things- bottle of wine, cheese, crackers, hummus, fresh fruit, good friends = great lil Sunday night.
It's a very cool city. There's such an international flavor which is amazing to see families from basically all parts of the world strolling along the river. As we were walking along the water, we couldn't help but compare it to Egypt. The thing that we just couldn't believe is how quiet it was downtown. There are people everywhere, but it's just so nice and peaceful. Unlike the tackiness of the Nile River which screams for attention. Sometimes I think you go through certain experiences just to appreciate other experiences. Without living in Cairo, I don't think I would appreciate Singapore as much as I do.

Living in the tropics can also have a few surprises.... like this lovely fellow found in our parking lot!! Apparently pythons are not very dangerous. However, there are cobras on this island. I've been told that you might see a big snake when you're walking in tall grass or off trails. However, this one was in found in the middle of the city next to a car!!
There are snails everywhere! I always forget to take pictures of them. As a kid I remember loving to play with these guys and had them race. The snails here are the biggest that I've ever seen. They are literally everywhere after a long rain. One morning, it was dark and I went for a walk through the neighborhood and I was looking at the street signs, not looking at the sidewalk....and CRUNCH. I already knew before I could look down that the worst had happened and I had stepped on my shelled friend.


"Wow, I didn't know your hair was frizzy." - Owen after the first day we were in Singapore. Yes, it's a battle of the frizz. I've had a few friends try straightening their hair with Brazilian Blowout which I'm thinking about trying. I'm not sure if this is scientific or not, but everyone talks about how quickly your hair grows here. So even if you have a bad haircut, it's grown out in a week or two.
It's always hot. There will never be a need for a jacket. However, that also means you can swim year round. I only wear shorts and dresses which makes it easy when deciding what to wear. Sometimes I long for a crisp, cool afternoon to go on a run, but that will never happen. I kinda miss having different clothes for different seasons. We don't ever have to check the weather report though. And always bring an umbrella because there might be a quick, unexpected rain shower.

Basically, life is good. There are few annoying things just like anywhere, but the positives greatly outweigh the annoyances.

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Egghead likes her booky wook.

I've heard so many good things about this book. However, the first 1/2 of the book is painfully slow. I couldn't relate to a damn thing that happened. I've never been in an arranged marriage, lived in poverty, or had a baby. The 2nd half of the book got a lot better. It's about a family and their ties to India where they are from. I really enjoyed the book towards the end of it and didn't want it to finish. I wouldn't recommend the movie unless you've read the book. I don't think you'd really understand everything that goes on. After reading the entire book, I can see why this is popular for high school book lists. I could totally relate to the main character (in the last part) Sometimes you think that if you just married someone who comes from your same cultural background that this would make everything right or easier or something like that. I won't spoil the ending, but it had and interesting end.

p.s. I wouldn't watch the movie without reading the book first, and it has some weird Bollywood jokes in it too that I don't think I really appreciated or understood. I feel like you need to be Indian to understand these references. Or maybe just more in touch with the Bengali culture to appreciate it more.

Right now I'm currently listening to a book which I swore I would NEVER do.
I've been walking every day after work listening to this book. It's about maids during the Civil rights movement in the 60s in Jackson, Mississippi. It's narrated by several different women and is AMAZING! I definitely recommend this and I haven't even finished it. I love hearing the Southern accents and talk about Southern cuisine. But it's just unbelievable what happened back then. How could people really separate 'blacks' and 'whites' like that? But then I think of how so many of my friends have full time 'help' who are Filipino maids who send all their money back home and put up with crazy living conditions. Is it that different? I mean, the maids have rights now, but how many rights do they really have? Do they have the right to go see their boyfriend whenever they wish? I just read an article about a maid who was sneaking out of her apt when her employer wouldn't let her see her boyfriend. And she ended up falling from the window and dying. What are the maids rights here? And even if they have rights, they don't really have the same rights as me because they have to live with their employer. It's been interesting to read while living in a place where EVERYONE has a full time live-in maid. My friends seem to be super nice to their helpers. The important thing is to remember that you are not better than anyone else, especially if you are better paid. And just be grateful for what you have. Don't ever take it for granted.
While I've been listening to that book, I've also been reading this one. It's a true story of a family who runs a zoo in Poland during the Holocaust. Every time I read a book on the Holocaust, I just can't believe that this happened. How did this happen? How did people support this? Unbelievable. Just like "Separate but equal", Apartheid, slavery, Jim Crow laws and the KKK. How did this ever happen?! Again, I'm so grateful to be educated and have such an easy life. I've never had to fight for my basic rights(except my right not to be sexual harassed in Egypt), but I've really never known what it means to struggle for basic freedoms. I'm so blessed.

Saturday, March 05, 2011

Upcoming....

TRIPS!!

So excited.... got a long stretch of work until April 15th. Then a week in Sri Lanka!!

Then a long weekend in Penang!!


Then Perhenthian Islands for a week in June!!


Then..... a month in South Africa!!!



Although life in Singapore is not bad at all.... pretty excited about being here for Lion King(3rd row tickets!!), Macbeth, Jimmy Eat World, Sara Bareilles, etc.